Molly, 32.
Cosplayer, library person, fashion enthusiast.
Fat, fabulous, occasionally charming and/or witty.
Catching Elephant is a theme by Andy Taylor
If you have been on Tumblr on the past couple of days, it’s likely that you’ve seen this post. I happened to stumble upon it randomly on my dashboard and usually, I scroll past really long texts but this one caught me by surprise because I recognized every single person in this photo. This was posted by someone I know very well who currently goes by the name Lexus Willow, but I know her as ‘Lex’. Lex and I were really close about four (maybe five? idk) years ago. We were best friends so obviously, I know each and every one of the people in that photo by name.
While true, her home life wasn’t ever ideal (her mom made us stop listening to ‘I Kiss A Girl’ at her 16th birthday party because they didn’t support that in their house) but honestly, her life isn’t as bad as she’s making it out to be. While her parents weren’t supportive of her being gay, the reason they are so harsh on her is because of her own dumb life choices. She has done tons of incredibly shitty things to her family that left be absolutely dumbstruck. She goes off with girl after girl, saying they’re the one, write them pretty songs but use them and uses her family as a springboard when she has nowhere else to go.
She admitted to cheating on her ex-fiancee with dozens of girls, but plays if off to everyone as she was the victim and everything was this girls fault. She uses the people around her, including her family. In fact, this one girl was at her graduation party, interacting with her mother and they knew who she was.
Lex’s life is far from perfect. She’s had a pretty rough past with being adopted and sure, her parents aren’t always 100% supportive of her lifestyle choices, but this isn’t a strict matter of her being queer. It’s her as a person. I normally wouldn’t really care that she’s getting attention for this but the fact that people are sending her MONEY to meet up with a girl she’s never met before (she does this a lot, btw) and say they want to write to Ellen is absolutely preposterous. Until Lex gets her life straightened out, this is not what she needs. She needs her family and you are all enabling her to continue on with her bad habits.
If you see posts about her, especially about donating money or writing to Ellen, PLEASE RESIST. There are so many more people who deserve this more than her and her family are NOT bad people. They aren’t evil. They truly want what’s best for their daughter, biological or not, and this is going to rip their family apart. I hope I don’t come across as a bitter person, but it honestly disgusts me that people are feeding into this when it’s not true.
If Lex sees this, I’m really sorry. I care about you deeply but this is going too far and you KNOW IT. You are stealing people’s money for your selfish needs and lying to them and it has to end. There are people out there who really are in horrible situations with no support whatsoever and they aren’t being heard but for some reason, people are eating this up, even though you’re the one who ripped your face off of that picture and have admitted to that. Please, please stop. I’m sure you could easily figure out who this is, maybe not, but I really think people deserve to know this. Your family loves you and this will tear them apart.
Just be careful with this money business everyone.
Just finished watching ParaNorman on Netflix instant streaming. It was so much better than I thought it would be based on how it was advertised while it was still in theaters. Who knew it was actually a story about bullying? I sure didn’t! It even made me cry a little.
This puts me in mind of how Moulin Rouge was NOTHING like how the previews made it seem.
ParaNorman is worth the watch. Especially now that bullying is such a huge problem. Good Job Laika…good job…just choose a better company to do your trailers/advertising next time, m’kay? Thnx!
Wasn’t it awesome? Definitely among my faves of the animated movies last year. I particularly like how it addresses the cycles of abuse, and how someone who is bullied can turn into a bully themselves sometimes.
OKAY YOU KNOW WHAT THIS WHOLE FANDOM THING IS FUCKED UP I JSUT STARTED READING GIRL GENIUS TWO DAYS AGO AND I’M ALREADY ALMOST DONE AND PISSED THAT THEY’RE SINKING MY SHIPS THIS IS NOT OKAY
AND LIKE I HONESTLY DON’T EVEN THINK THERE’S A FANDOM AND IF THERE IS I’VE NEVER…
Gil/Agatha is NOT a sinking ship!
Is it?
*not used to fandom terms*
As far as I’m aware, Gil/Agatha/Tarvek is the fandom flagship.
But there are people who ship Gil/Agatha and kind of flip out and hate Tarvek.
I don’t know, I’m a gay Jaeger shipper, and I’m kind of the only one currently producing any sort of fanstuff regarding it.
I don’t flip out and hate Tarvek, I just want Agatha with Gil forever and ever, but of course it’s her choice to make. ^_^ ‘Course, as has been pointed out in-story, she’s the Heterodyne, maybe she WILL just have them both.
Gay Jaeger stuff…I’m not sure I see it as canonical (at least not with our Three Boys there) but I am VASTLY amused and a little intrigued at the concept. I’m assuming they leave their hats on though? ^_~
Some people do! I figure she’ll either take both, or one will die defending her, so I dunno. Like I said, this fandom is kind of weird to me, and I don’t understand anything.
BUT MAN, IT’S NOT LIKE WHETHER OR NOT SOMETHING IS CANON STOPS ANYONE. And I think that, regardless of anything, what kind of shenanigans The Boys get into romantically, that it’s not going to be centrifugal to the plot, and therefor probably not be brought up at all.
HOWEVER, I will point out that this exists, and that pleases me greatly.
I figure they swap hats during tho, if you must know.
When asked, Kaja did say that Jager sexuality is “opportunistic”. (source: A-Kon 2011) I think that, combined with the sketch, means pretty much anything goes. Though I doubt we’d see much between Da Boyz in comic…..but it does give a degree of canonicity to one’s feelings about such things!
Yeah, opportunistic is pretty much how I figure it goes. As well as the not likely to see anything in the comic. It’s shipping, I figure as long as I don’t force it down other people’s throats, and I’m not hurting anyone, it really shouldn’t be a big deal.
It is my thing, and it makes me happy.
Same here. ^_^ (I was vastly amused to see my piece of art that I got from Phil, and my hand, in this post! It made me happy.) First off, hello, new GG reader! Glad to meet you. I’m another Jaeger shipper, though I do also love the OT3.
hi :) I have to admit, I never really thought about shipping the Jagers? they kind of remind me of little bloodthirsty, homicidal kids
even when the one (pretty sure it was Dimo but I can’t remember) said he had descendants I never really thought of it like that
the way I see it they’re all hat-sexual
Yes, hatsexual! I like it. ^_^ And admittedly, I ship them like I do in part because I just tend to be drawn to monster characters more than human ones, but that’s just me.
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i just thought this needed to be pointed out to the tumblr community.
these are all photoshopped by enrico francis
it needs to stop.
Dear Enrico Francis Photoshop extrordinare,
STOP FUCKIN PHOTOSHOPPING BEAUTIFUL WOMEN AND MANIPULATING THEIR BODIES AND FACES INTO UNNATURAL BARBIE LOOK-A-LIKES.
1. youre not very good at it. the manipulations you make are so fucking freakish that all i have to do is glance at your photos and know that its not real.
2. the natural beauty of these women is so profound that the fact that you feel the need to photoshop them is fucking INSANE.
3. we do not need another fucking shit putting these unrealistic expectations of women (and men, cause you shop them too) into the world. its not right. you know its not, i know its not and tumblr knows.
So Enrico, I beg you please give it a rest. be a good fucking human being and stop. learn to be a true artist and enhance the beauty youre working with as opposed to completely warping it.
and if you dont i will continue to publish your shitty photoshop all over this fucking website.
This is disgusting.
FOR ONCE SOMEONE INCLUDED WOMEN OF COLOR.Thank God. Its good for people to see how this is done to women in the industry. sickening, but true.
Anyone else notice with the women of color, they narrowed their noses? And that none of the white women’s noses were altered?
(Yes I am annoyed at the other things they narrowed but.)
Remember folks, when studios edit for beauty standards, they’re editing for WHITE, EURO STANDARDS.
They fucking gave those beautiful women of color a white woman’s nose.
Remember that.
I was LITERALLY going to say the same thing
That nose bullshit is for the birds
They look SO MUCH FUCKING BETTER with rounded off noses, fuck that pointy shit god damnit
they photoshopped women in the BACKGROUND
This shit actually just brought me back down to earth because wow that Selena Gomez one is fucking bonkers. He photoshopped the woman in the background. He photoshopped a literally faceless nobody because they want this ingrained in your head- that impossible thinness, that perfectly sculpted arms and abs are the norm, what is expected, just the minimum prerequisites of being a woman in society. They want to let you know that even if you aren’t the star of the show, all eyes are on you, and they’ll eat you alive if you aren’t as skinny and pretty as the cash cows. It doesn’t matter if you aren’t being paid to let people watch you on screen: they’re still watching you from behind the scenes and you’re done for if your arms jiggle. God save you if your armpits are fat.These were really really important on my journey to loving myself. I used to look through magazines and see these women who were seeming unattainably beautiful. To see the before and after a showed me the reality of it. I don’t look at magazines anymore, they just make me feel awful. These women are so beautiful, and to manipulate their bodies like this is shameful.
Dear world, your standards of beauty are bull shit. no love, genevieve
OKAY YOU KNOW WHAT THIS WHOLE FANDOM THING IS FUCKED UP I JSUT STARTED READING GIRL GENIUS TWO DAYS AGO AND I’M ALREADY ALMOST DONE AND PISSED THAT THEY’RE SINKING MY SHIPS THIS IS NOT OKAY
AND LIKE I HONESTLY DON’T EVEN THINK THERE’S A FANDOM AND IF THERE IS I’VE NEVER…
Gil/Agatha is NOT a sinking ship!
Is it?
*not used to fandom terms*
As far as I’m aware, Gil/Agatha/Tarvek is the fandom flagship.
But there are people who ship Gil/Agatha and kind of flip out and hate Tarvek.
I don’t know, I’m a gay Jaeger shipper, and I’m kind of the only one currently producing any sort of fanstuff regarding it.
I don’t flip out and hate Tarvek, I just want Agatha with Gil forever and ever, but of course it’s her choice to make. ^_^ ‘Course, as has been pointed out in-story, she’s the Heterodyne, maybe she WILL just have them both.
Gay Jaeger stuff…I’m not sure I see it as canonical (at least not with our Three Boys there) but I am VASTLY amused and a little intrigued at the concept. I’m assuming they leave their hats on though? ^_~
Some people do! I figure she’ll either take both, or one will die defending her, so I dunno. Like I said, this fandom is kind of weird to me, and I don’t understand anything.
BUT MAN, IT’S NOT LIKE WHETHER OR NOT SOMETHING IS CANON STOPS ANYONE. And I think that, regardless of anything, what kind of shenanigans The Boys get into romantically, that it’s not going to be centrifugal to the plot, and therefor probably not be brought up at all.
HOWEVER, I will point out that this exists, and that pleases me greatly.
I figure they swap hats during tho, if you must know.
When asked, Kaja did say that Jager sexuality is “opportunistic”. (source: A-Kon 2011) I think that, combined with the sketch, means pretty much anything goes. Though I doubt we’d see much between Da Boyz in comic…..but it does give a degree of canonicity to one’s feelings about such things!
Yeah, opportunistic is pretty much how I figure it goes. As well as the not likely to see anything in the comic. It’s shipping, I figure as long as I don’t force it down other people’s throats, and I’m not hurting anyone, it really shouldn’t be a big deal.
It is my thing, and it makes me happy.
Same here. ^_^ (I was vastly amused to see my piece of art that I got from Phil, and my hand, in this post! It made me happy.) First off, hello, new GG reader! Glad to meet you. I’m another Jaeger shipper, though I do also love the OT3.
I tested Walmart’s brand of bottled water and I was shocked to see they sell the most toxic water ever. I tested for Total Dissolved Solids using a TDS meter and the number I got was 271. THAT IS THE MOST TOXIC WATER I HAVE EVER SEEN. Even NYC tap water TDS score is 39. Poland Spring is 42. The water is not even drinkable. I think it’s Criminal to even make profits from selling this water filled with sodium fluoride and who knows what else is in that. 500 ppm (parts per million) is the EPA Maximum but even though the FDA is corrupt their recommended is 000, which is pure.
THE ONLY BOTTLED WATER THAT READS 000 IS DUANEreade/Walgreens ‘NICE’ branded water.
PLEASE SHARE THIS INFO ALONG.- anonymousDamn wally mart… Damn… :/
ok wow i could of told you that shit was toxic without using science
omg, so that’s what has been killing my venus fly traps
To repeat kingdizzy88 from the comments, read this: http://www.who.int/water_sanitation_health/dwq/chemicals/tds.pdf. And from hishashabis: “t’s spring water! Spring water always has a higher TDs (usually about 159-200) I will admit that it is a bit high but definitely not toxic, I know this because I used to be a quality control tech at a water plant.” What’s probably killing your Venus flytrap is not using distilled water, tbh. They need a very specific kind of water, and distilled is usually best.
Mod post! Haven’t posted one in a while, so here goes.
This is my adult Toph Bei Fong cosplay from Avatar: The Last Airbender/ Legend of Korra. I debuted this costume exactly a year after my Sailor Jupiter one and was about as nervous about it. Even though it did cover considerably more than Sailor Jupiter did, (which was my concern with Jupiter), I had never really made armor before and when I first wore the costume, only one or two other people had cosplayed this version of Toph. But it immediately became my favorite as soon as I wore it. This past year in particular, I’ve scarcely worn any other costumes at the multiple conventions I’ve attended. Toph is tied with Jupiter for my all-time favorite costume I’ve done, and she’s one of my all-time favorite characters in general. I’ve just fallen in love with, connected with, and learned from the character, and made a lot of connections and fallen in love while wearing the costume. I grew close with my roommates this year through the character and the costume, met some of my now-best friends in that costume, traveled to and saw a lot of places in it, and even met my girlfriend through cosplaying Toph. Even if none of it lasts, the fact that all of this happened through my love for an animated character and through wearing a geeky costume, to me, is pretty amazing.
A lot of people I’ve come across think it’s really nerdy to love a show and a character that much. So that’s why I think it’s especially odd and terrible that those who are nerdy, those who are labelled “weird” by a large portion of society, often ostracize other nerdy people for how they look, especially in terms of cosplay. It’s reactions like that that made it, even with the huge positive reaction I got from Jupiter and the enormous confidence boost it was, still a small bit nerve wracking to cosplay a character that I knew was considered to have a different “look” than me. But I took a leaf from Sailor Jupiter’s book when I cosplayed her and the positive response from everyone was one of the coolest things that has ever happened to me. So I did the same with Toph.
I cosplay the characters I do for a reason; they tend to have similar outlooks on things (and I’d bet money they’d all get along famously if put in a room together.) They are all imminently themselves despite people’s labeling them as abnormal in some respect, particularly Jupiter and Toph. I follow Toph’s philosophy of doing what you love and staying imminently true to yourself, despite any perceived oddity in it and regardless of what anyone else thinks about it. Toph does what she wants and if you tell her she can’t, you’d better be prepared because it’s about to go down. Toph Bei Fong doesn’t take anyone’s shit and I try to do the same. And if anyone ever told me I wasn’t doing justice to the character because of what I looked like, it’d be clear to me that they don’t understand Toph. Toph does not care what she or anyone else looks like and why would she? She knows exactly how much bullshit it really is to judge on looks. She cares about the content of peoples’ character, their actions, their words, their behavior and she judges herself on the same standards. She knows who she is and doesn’t need anyone else’s justification for her existence. Why would I ever be concerned with what people think about how I look in the costume when I love it so much and when it’s done so many wonderful things for me? Never be ashamed of who you are and who and what you love. Don’t hesitate to give something your all. Wearing first Jupiter, and now Toph, has taught me that loving something with everything you’ve got, and to hell with anyone who has a problem with it, can do unexpected and extraordinary things.
I loved reading your thoughts here. ^_^ I tend to have a similar focus with the characters I cosplay, with a similar level of love for characters. I mainly cosplay Uncle Iroh and Lumpy Space Princess, and am debuting Rarity from MLP this year. But yeah, there’s a reason that I am going into my third year of the same Iroh cosplay—I love the positive response that I get from people, and seeing how much people love the character. I’m really glad that I get to make them so happy.
Princess to Prince Transformation
All characters portrayed by Richard Schaefer (Me)
Costumes also made by myself. My Fan-page
This HAS to be my favorite cosplay post EVER.
You do wonderful cosplay work! :D
Keep in mind when ‘questing for truth’
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I’M GOING TO CRY
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WHAT
SOEMHTING MUST BE DONE OH MY GOD NO
No. DO YOUR RESEARCH. There are around 200 or so in captivity. There are plenty more in the wild (here’s an estimate of around 11000), though they are CITES II (which allows limited hunting) and the IUCN has them listed as “near threatened”, which is just one step below “least concern”.